I recently had this kind of discussion, well, about people and problems. These two elements are nothing but can not be seperated each other, thus we may say, the people should ; cope with it, try to solve it, and learn from it.
Muchless that is what i can conclude. Problems are relative, big or small. They show up and get around people in all ages - old or young, both sexes - male or female, all status - students or housewives, all occupations - CEOs or servants. They just appear differently because problems are within different kinds. We all facing problems and obstacles in our life, mine not necessarily bigger than yours, or yours neither tougher than hers, We meet different kind of problems depend on who we are or what we are doing right now to be more specific.
And that is why we cope with the problems in various reactions. We can be very worry, afraid, thoughtless, panic, anxious, you named it. Otherwise, we can be that still, relaxed, and calm. Each person has their own reaction and way to cope with their own problems. So when someone comes to you and probably tell about their problem and you thought their response to the problem is too much, that is when we should try to understand. Maybe the person is not tougher than you, you never been in her shoes. Then why judge?
To all persons who take problems in quiet ease, rather than taking others' problem is excessive, it would be gladful to listen to the stories or lead the others to some solutions and options to be contemplated. People have different mind, diverse experiences, pyshic and mental, and character, we just can not equalize.
